Lady Steuart Bethune (died 1904) (1825–1904) Parents Coutts Trotter Henry Lindsay Bethune Children William Graham-Toler, 4th Earl of Norbury Lady Mary Catherine Graham-Toler Lady Margaret Albinia Grace Graham-Toler Lady Charlotte Emily Alexina Graham-Toler Lady Elizabeth Graham-Toler Siblings Lady Anne Katherine Bethune Caroline Felicie Bethune John Trotter Bethune, 10th Earl of Lindsay Martin William Bethune Charlotte Jane Bethune Henry James Hamilton Bethune Jane Coutts Lindsay Harriet Lindesay Narriman Bethune Partners Hector Graham-Toler, 3rd Earl of Norbury