Ursula d'Abo noblewoman; maid of honour to Queen Elizabeth The Queen Mother (1916–2017) Parents Kathleen Manners, Duchess of Rutland John Manners, 9th Duke of Rutland Children Richard d'Abo Henry d'Abo Louisa d'Abo Siblings Charles Manners, 10th Duke of Rutland Lady Isabel Manners Lord John Manners Lord Roger Manners Kenneth Deacon Dearca Partners J. Paul Getty Robert d'Abo Anthony Marreco