Frank Metcalfe New Zealand army officer and university administrator (1947–2025) (1947–2025) Parents Phyllis Della Grant Richard Herbert Metcalfe Children Melanie Clare Metcalfe Matthew Metcalfe Siblings Janet Waveney Metcalfe Quentin Lewis James Melcalfe Rowan Metcalfe Wallace Howard Metcalfe Partners Di McCarthy Nathalie May Dickson