Rowan Metcalfe New Zealand writer and poet (1955–2003) Parents Phyllis Della Grant Richard Herbert Metcalfe Children Tristan Kay Abendenon Waveney Frances Della Abendenon Siblings Janet Waveney Metcalfe Quentin Lewis James Melcalfe Frank Metcalfe Wallace Howard Metcalfe Partners Jan Berend Abendenon